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People often says that every mistake made, we'll have to live our lives in regret, because they're irreversible. But come to think of it, is there really nothing we can do about it?? Is wallowing and soaking ourselves in depression and misery the only way out when too much hurt is inflicted on us?? Is there really no chances of healing a broken heart??
Nothing is impossible because I M POSSIBLE =) When there's a will, there's a way!!(",) For the above questions, the answer is they're not true!! It's true that once we commit a mistake, consequences that lead to it do make us feel regretful and there's nothing like turn back time.
But we can always do things to make up to the mistake we commited. Do something about it to change things to the better, why dwell in regrets when you can actually live out of it if you do something about it, right?? =)
Same for sinking into depression! Yes, the amount of pain everyone goes through is different. Nobody will know the hurt you're going through better than you do. Nobody will ever understand fully how hurt you are because they're not the one that went through the situation like you did. Even if the same situation were to hit another person, the reaction and feelings involved will be diffferent because you're you, nobody can ever be like you. You're unqiue =)
But why sink into depression when you know your smile would mean the whole world to someone out there. You might not know, but someone might have fallen in love and can't do without your smile(",) I'm sure many of you heard the story about a smile that saved the suicidal thought of a young child.
In fact, sinking into depression is because you are wallowing in self-pity! You find that you're given unfair treatment by someone dear to you. Yes, you can feel unfair, but why take revenge on yourself?? Isn't that very silly?? Someone had hurt you so deeply but you end up hurting yourself even more??
Look beyond the hurt and you'll learn many precious lessons. Want to take revenge on those that had hurt you deeply?? There's a good way. Be nice to those that hurt you because you won't feel bad but they do!!(",)
Never take revenge on yourself, and of course never take revenge on others. You know why?? It's tiring to hate someone, what's more to plot a revenge against them. You know the hurt you been through, why pass it on to another person right?? =) So..wallowing in your feelings is just simply self-pitying, it's not good after all(",)
Who says nothing can heal a broken heart??!! This is certainly not true. Yes! There will be scars no matter how hard you try to salvage the heart, but the scars are reminder for you not to commit the same mistake ever again. If there scars are not there, how would you ever remember all the precious experiences you went through?? Then how is it possible to prevent you for committing the same mistake ever again??
There're many scars inflicted on everyone's heart. But the scars will never be the same(",) Pick yourself up after a fall. How?? By falling again!! But let the scar from the previous fall reminds you not to fall the same way as you did the previous times =)
posted at 12:55 PM
